Relational Conundrums

    We are, by nature, a social people. It is inscribed deep in our genetic code that we must seek acquaintanceship of another, as interpersonal interactions are necessary for our sanity. This is easily verified in those situations when we are given the almighty "silent treatment". When somebody does not respond to a question, statement or otherwise, we feel a sense of inadequacy. We ramble on nonchalantly hoping to be given some form of verbal acknowledgment. But as we wait with bated breath, nothing. We ramble on more, spewing useless information in a pathetic attempt to justify whatever action may have brought about this unforgiving silence. But, nothing. From an argumentative standpoint, this is the simplest and most effective method for resolving, or at least addressing, an issue. In this silence we are forced to question our actions, and more so our reasons for those actions. We are forced to examine ourselves.

    But what about too much interaction? Is there such a thing? Can we possibly be so enamored by somebody that we spend every spare moment thinking of them? If we do, is it absolutely necessary to incessantly make yourself part of their daily routine by text messaging and calling whenever spare time allows? I think not. It is a hard balance to find, though. The harmony that holds our entire universe together is seemingly always out of tune. As we grow tired of continued failures and shortcomings, we seem to focus primarily on that perfect chord that will let our lives continue in theoretical correctness. And it is hard for us to grasp the concept that there will never be a perfect harmony. We are born with flaws into a flawed world. It is even harder for us to understand that the chaos and inconsistencies we despise more with each day we live are really the only truths to our lives. You can always expect something to go wrong, so try to not be so surprised when it does.